Ever felt that a love interest (or a potential one) seems to be either losing or has lost interest in you, with no apparent reason you can figure? You find yourself feeling disappointed, rejected, and/or extremely frustrated. You may not find much comfort in this, but the same has been felt by most every other human, interested in a companion/partner...Read More
Intellectualization: eight syllables for habits that could be locking you in a lonely cozy shack.
Psychologists use the word for behavior patterns when someone confronts a situation or memory with strong emotional potential. Instead of living the emotions, someone using intellectualization will respond with thoughts, creating a logical bypass to the feelings.
Imagine Deeann talking to Raquel...Read More
You may have been contemplating recently: what is vanity and how is it not self-love, or is it?
Understanding the similarities and differences becomes much easier once we understand that our upbringing teaches us about self-confidence: what it is and what it is not. Even more interestingly, our society seems to have us all convinced that having self-confidence and self-love is somehow wrong...Read More
We all have bad habits, but if some of your repetitive behaviors are at odds with the overall person you are or aspire to be, they’re most likely destructive to your person.
Here is how you can identify your own...Read More